It's amazing that I can meet a girl that meets all of the criteria that I thought were important to me and she still isn't enough. She's smart, sexy, very sexual, very happy with me, etc. I guess that since I've gotten older maybe my criteria is different now. I've pondered about the existence of love. It's a topic that has brought me a lot of sadness in the past. I even started to write a book about the topic - having studied it to a great degree; from all kinds of aspects - psychology, anthropoloy, etc. Perhaps the most difficult part of understanding love is that there isn't a clear definition of what it is - everyone expects everyone else to just know what it is. Does anyone know what love is? Is there a definition?

Lost Guy,
Love your post! Really inspiring... wow, even a book! Love is very complicated, I agree!
~Megan/Horselover1108